“Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.”
I can not tell you how many times I have started something new and never made it to the end game. I would be completely obsessed with my new hobby or interest for two weeks, three max. Then things would inevitably get difficult. A problem, issue, or complication that seemed insurmountable presented itself and I buckled. I gave up at the first sign of discomfort. I was completely unwilling to persevere through the difficulties and I wanted everything given to me without much fuss. I wanted the gold at the end of the rainbow, without having to track down, capture, and coerce the leprechaun.
This behavior led to a perpetual state of dissatisfaction. I could never build any self confidence because I wouldn’t finish anything. I had zero faith in my abilities because I didn’t truly see what I was capable of. I didn’t grow or move forward as a person due to my inability to look past the pain. I was utterly stunted in misery. I didn’t have a strong WHY that kept me sloshing through the muck of life to reach my goals.
The WHY is arguably the most important piece of your success puzzle. Whether you want to start a business, make a good grade in a tough class, or become physically fit, you have to establish the strongest WHY possible. Decide your goal, think about what you need to do to attain said goal, and then answer the question: WHY am I doing this? Without the most powerful answer you can think of to this question, failure is almost inevitable. Your WHY is what gets you out of bed at 5:00 AM, pushes you through a grueling leg workout, forces you to turn the page of a text book, or eat a healthy meal over a fast food option. The WHY is what makes the sacrifice mean something and dulls the pain of the difficulties you will face on your journey.
I encourage you to sit down and write out the reason WHY you will continue through whatever obstacle you may face to achieve your goal. Memorize it and repeat it to yourself on a daily basis. You will be surprised after a few weeks of mental conditioning, how automatic your response will be to pain on all levels. If you can visualize your WHY and the goal you have, then nothing can stop you on your way to victory.
Know this. You will fail. There will be days that suck. There will be times when you ask yourself if all this torture is worth it. You will want to quit. You will want to throw on your sweat pants, heat up a hot pocket, grab the ice cream tub, and crawl into bed for the longest Netflix marathon imaginable. It is just easier that way.
When you feel like QUITTING, think about WHY you STARTED. Remember that you EARN your body and EVERYTHING else WORTH having.
When the easy way out seems like the best option, remember the WHY behind the suffering. Think about how far you have come. Remind yourself that everyday is a blessing and that there is someone out there that is doing more with less than you have. Say how grateful you are to be alive and tell yourself that the reason you are working so hard is bigger than the pain! Once you remember how strong your WHY is behind your actions, the barriers will melt away. You are only hindered by your own imagination, belief in yourself, and the strength of your WHY. Smash through the pain and find what your’e truly made of. I think you will be surprised by how strong you actually are and I am willing to bet that, once you have your WHY, nothing can hold you back. Be unstoppable. WRECK IT!